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Validating feelings

Growing as a parent with ADHD children made me a lot more aware of their feelings when interacting with my kids and people in general. (Maybe my husband & mum not so, I know I fail quite badly as a wife & daughter. #assholewife #assholedaughter) Recently Lucas reminded me of how important it is to… Continue reading Validating feelings

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But they look normal…

Everyone's on the cliff edge of normal. Everyone finds life an utter nightmare sometimes, and there's no 'normal' way of dealing with it... There is no normal, Evelyn.― Holly Bourne, Am I Normal Yet? I've recently discovered my sons are with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) and after telling my closed ones, some would say.. "But they… Continue reading But they look normal…

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You’ll Never Walk Alone

My relationship with Liverpool FC is like a love story of a pair of long lost lovers. It began with my father's love for the club. He would watch every single match (even if it means waking up at 3am), pulling down the big projector screen and converts our hall into some kind of theatre,… Continue reading You’ll Never Walk Alone

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My MCO Must Have

It's more than a month now that we're all under Movement Control Order/Working from Home/stuck at home/forced to be home/sit down quietly at home, however you want to term it. As much as I would like to write a post to tell you "Hey there! Keep going!" Let's look at the more realistic side of… Continue reading My MCO Must Have